How you choose to deal or respond emotionally to a situation is entirely your choice. What you allow into your life field is all based on your choice.
"When you stop blaming others or times for your lack of happiness you empower yourself. It's not anyone else's responsibility to make you happy. Have no expectations of others or objects. Look to yourself and your inner strength of human God spirit to manifest joy from your heart centre. Then you will learn profound understanding and value of self and the life force. There is endless beauty in life all around and within you. It is time for you to be the one who allows you to feel and see it again." - Channelled, 'Yufious' The Lion of God. Your Spirit Within
Are you constantly playing the victim or is trouble always a large presence in your life? It's time to be very self honest and ask yourself how are you allowing this? Or why are you allowing yourself to wallow in the darkness of self pity?
(Some of the poorest people in the world are blessed for they know how to be joyful regardless of the constant perils.) - Chanelled, Guardian Angel. Your Spirit Within.
Re-empower yourself and allow the light of your soul to re-ignite with life force! Believe in yourself, trust yourself and love and support yourself. Gain happiness within by listening to the love wisdom of the heart centre not the emotions and the dark memories. Actively create happiness in your spirit by the power of positive thought.
Once you take this responsibility on you will find that you are so bright in your presence that you can't see the dark any more and your sense of freedom and purpose will return.
Hold onto your beautiful self power gifted to us from the Heavens by being responsible for your free will of choice and actively stay in the light of life!